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Betty Ford Quotes

Betty Ford (1918-2011)

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First Lady Betty Ford

First Lady Betty Ford

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Wife of Gerald Ford, the only U.S. President who wasn't elected as President or Vice President, she was an unexpected First Lady in many ways. She made public her battles with breast cancer and chemical dependence (the Betty Ford clinic is named for her), and she endorsed the Equal Rights Amendment and women's right to abortion.

Selected Betty Ford Quotations

• The search for human freedom can never be complete without freedom for women.

• I was an ordinary woman who was called onstage at an extraordinary time. I was no different once I became first lady than I had been before. But, through an accident of history, I had become interesting to people.

• You never know what you can do until you have to do it.

• I've learned a lot about myself. Most of it is all right. When I add up the pluses and subtract the minuses, I still come out pretty well.

• We were in a position where my husband had been sworn into office during a very, very difficult time. There had been so much cover-up during Watergate that we wanted to be sure there would be no cover-up in the Ford Administration. So rather than continue this traditional silence about breast cancer, we felt we had to be public.

• My makeup wasn't smeared, I wasn't disheveled, I behaved politely, and I never finished off a bottle, so how could I be alcoholic?

• Captain Pursch ... gave me the book Alcoholics Anonymous, and told me to read it, substituting the words 'chemically dependent' for 'alcoholic.'

• It's always been my feeling that God lends you your children until they're about eighteen years old. If you haven't made your points with them by then, it's too late.

• Not my power, but the power of the position, a power which could be used to help.

• [Martha Graham] shaped my whole life. She gave me the ability to stand up to all the things I had to go through, with much more courage than I would have had without her.

• [About becoming First Lady at Nixon's resignation] I figured, okay, I'll move to the White House, do the best I can, and if they don't like it, they can kick me out. But they can't make me be somebody I'm not.

• [About her husband's appointment as Vice President in 1973] If I had known what was coming, I think I would have sat right down and cried.

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Also known as: Elizabeth Bloomer Warren Ford

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Quote collection assembled by Jone Johnson Lewis. Each quotation page in this collection and the entire collection © Jone Johnson Lewis 1997-2006. This is an informal collection assembled over many years. I regret that I am not be able to provide the original source if it is not listed with the quote.

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