Her Story: Uncovering Women's Lives
By Jone Johnson Lewis and Kimberly T. Powell.
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The transcribed cemetery record was simple, with very basic information: "Anderson Beata Josephine, 16 Sept 1864 - 28 Dec 1882 w/o Oscar d/o Sven Larson." A woman who had married and died by the tender age of 18 - it left me aching to learn more.
Fortunately I found what I needed to know in a story about my great-grandfather's life, published by my aunt Linnea Rovainen in a high school literary collection in 1933. She based her short story on her memories, recalled from early childhood, of stories told by her grandfather Sven to her mother. Bertha Josephine or Berta Josefine (not Beata), an older half-sister of Linnea's mother (my grandmother), was born the year after her family immigrated to Wisconsin from Norway. About 1874, Bertha nearly died in an epidemic that took the lives of four brothers and her only sister. After this great loss, Bertha's mother, Maria, took to disappearing for weeks at a time, leaving the burden of running the household on Bertha as the only living girl - the boys were working outside on the farm from an early age.
My aunt's story includes this poignant paragraph:
Bertha grew up to be a healthy, good-looking girl. Being the only living daughter, she bore the burden of the household. All she saw was misery. When one of the neighbor boys asked her to become her bride, she knew that was her escape. Maria did not favor the marriage because she would lose the girl's help, but Sven realized what Bertha had suffered, so when the time came for his daughter to go, he sneaked her clothing out of the second floor window. Bertha was very happy in her humble home, but she did not have long to enjoy it because she died three months after her marriage.
The story was of my great-grandfather -- but here, buried in the middle of his account, I was able to separate out the tragic tale of this young 19th century American girl, whose only documented existence outside my aunt's story may be in a cemetery record, a marriage license and a couple of census entries.
[In 2002, I used this cemetery record to find and photograph Berta Josephine's gravestone; I also found and photographed the gravesite of her five half-siblings lost in 1874.]
Our female ancestors have wonderful stories to tell - legacies which extend far beyond sets of names and dates in the family tree. Yet, women's lives have historically been less visible than men's lives in history books and genealogical records. Discovering the substance of women's lives can be difficult, but not impossible. Through a combination of traditional genealogical research and social history research you can fill in the gaps and tell the real story of your female ancestor - how she lived, what she wore, her hopes and dreams…
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© 2002-2003 Kimberly Powell and Jone Johnson Lewis. Licensed to About.com.
A version of this article originally appeared in Everton's Family History Magazine, March 2002.
