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Mayo, A.D. "The Womans Movement in the South." The New England
Magazine, Volume 11, Number 2, October 1891. Pages 249-261. Published by the New
England Magazine Co., Boston, Massachusetts.
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THE WOMANS MOVEMENT IN THE SOUTH.
By A. P. Mayo.
It is not easy to-day to comprehend the full significance of the revolution in American
society inaugurated by the late Civil War. A few of the most obvious effects of the great
war are known to all. The complete destruction of the most powerful aristocratic class in
Christendom, as far as concerned its direct influence upon national affairs; the abolition
of the semi-feudal institution of American slavery, and the elevation of five millions of
people, to all the rights of American citizenship; the overthrow of the leading industrial
system that had prevailed nearly three centuries, in a country as large as Europe outside
the Russian Empire; the bitter struggle, perhaps not yet over, that has accompanied the
readjustment of civil, social and financial relations between the two races that people
sixteen great states, these and other results of that tremendous conflict are
already apparent to all. But other and less obvious consequences are beginning to appear,
in the slowly developing life of the new republic. These changes, revealed or hidden, in
the midst of which we live to-day, may be summed up as the radical transformation of an
Anglo-Saxon, semi-aristocratic into an American, democratic order of human affairs. Until
the breaking out of the war, American society, in the old East and through the entire
South, was a gradual broadening of the aristocratic order of British civilization from
which it sprung. No less in Boston, New York, and Philadelphia, than in Richmond,
Charleston, and New Orleans, were the claims of superior race, family, inherited wealth,
culture and social station acquiesced in, with only a prospect of gradual change. Thirty
years ago Emerson said: Old England extends to the Alleghenies; America begins in
Ohio. The emancipation of the southern negro and his recognition as a full American
citizen completed the process, begun by the naturalization of the immigrant European
peasant in the North, and cast into the trembling balance of national affairs a
make-weight which has finally committed the Union to the cause of popular government and
republican society.
There are still powerful organizations and influences on the ground that fiercely
challenge that result, and threaten new conflicts of these tendencies on new issues. What
is implied by the term Bourbonism in the South; the concentrated influence of
a zealous and able priesthood in more than one division of the American church; the
attempt, in certain quarters, to rally the cultivated class, by a sort of literary
Free-masonry, to distrust in American ideas; the affectation of narrow cliques, in all
social centres, to bring in the European ideal of a superior social caste; the prodigious
and rapid centralization of vast industrial interests in the grasp of gigantic
corporations, here is certainly a counter current, not to be overlooked and not
without great influence, either for wholesome restraint or mischievous obstruction. But,
however protracted may be the struggle, and however numerous the changes of scenery in the
shifting drama of the future, no thoughtful man can long doubt on which side the victory
will rest. For evil or good, the democratic idea is bound to prevail in American affairs.
That idea is not communistic, anarchical or subversive of inevitable gradations in
society. It is the progressive reconstruction of human affairs around the idea that every
human being shall have fair opportunity to develop what has been given him by his Maker,
with the corresponding obligation that every human being is bound to use his superiorities
and successes for the uplifting of all. Said Lord Napier to a distinguished American
clergyman, forty years ago, Great Britain is on the same
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inclined plane as the
United States. You are only a little farther down the grade than we. The complete
outcome of the American experiment in our New World will be the emancipation of mankind
through every nook and corner of the inhabited earth. We can baffle, embarrass, and
complicate the movement through its entire progress. We can plunge this continent into new
and bloody wars. We may so hinder the preparation of the common people for
their future dominion, that the rule of the many shall become the dominion of a mob, only
mitigated by the stolid resistance of the select minority. But if we bear ourselves in
wisdom and patience, the coming in of the peoples day will not be the sunset of
liberty, but the sunrise of a nobler social order than has yet been known to mankind. One
of the logical results of this condition of affairs is the theme of the present essay.
When I speak of The Womans Movement in the Southern States I
encounter the risk of a varied misapprehension. The enthusiastic advocate of
Womans Rights may fancy I am about to announce a grand rally to the
standard of woman suffrage, and all things inscribed on that banner, among the southern
sisters. A stalwart politician may suspect that I am about to reveal the
existence of a far-reaching conspiracy among the mothers of sixteen states to train their
offspring for another war against the Union. The summer correspondent, whose knowledge of
southern womanhood is confined to the observation of the crowd of handsome lady loungers
on the piazzas of southern watering places, may query whether there is any
movement at all in these slumbrous realms of good society. Yet
others may think I am to tell the wondrous story of a resurrection into superior womanhood
among the freedmen and poor white trash. It is concerning none of these
specially, though of something including them all incidentally, that I write.
I am not speaking on this delicate theme as one having authority, although
I have seen many things. A northern man, Puritan by descent, aristocratic in the grain,
with liberal democratic and cosmopolitan theories in religion and public affairs, educated
by thirty years in Massachusetts, New York, and Ohio, I never had an intimate acquaintance
with one woman of southern birth until a dozen years ago, and had scarcely travelled in
the South until called on the ministry of education in which I have been
engaged for the last twelve years. But my opportunities during these years for looking
into southern society as it is being shaped by the generation of young people born since
the opening of the Civil War have been, perhaps, unusual, certainly very widely extended.
That overlook includes a perpetual journeying through all these states during the entire
school year, with constant public addresses, inspection of southern schools of all grades,
entertainment in the homes of every class, frequent preaching in the churches of all
denominations, with the friendly personal confidences of great numbers of representative
men and women. And, without changing a single feature of my theory of American society and
with no consciousness of having been swerved from the right line of fidelity to
fundamental American principles by the friendliness of these people, I have come to a few
conclusions possibly novel to some of my readers, but welcome surely to every one who
rejoices in the name of American woman.
Perhaps there was never a more complete ignorance of the actual. condition of society
between two sections of the same country than between our northern and southern states for
a generation previous to the late war. Whatever of intimate commingling had existed in the
earlier days of the republic had almost passed away in the growing estrangement that came
of the continued exasperation of the slavery controversy. The northern people who
travelled South were chiefly of the sort who sympathized with southern institutions, and
saw only the sunny side of that land. Our white southern visitors were entirely of
the ruling class, on errands of business, pleasure, or politics, commonly the guests or
associates of their special northern friends. Mutual distrust and misapprehension ruled
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hour. Slavery was a picturesque drop-curtain, which shut away the real condition
of the southern people from the North as completely as its prototype before the stage.
Among these figures, the southern woman of the ruling class (for the North saw no
other) was prominent. The ordinary idea of this type of American womanhood, even among the
masses of intelligent people of the North, was a woman of tropical nature, with
fascinating person and manners, a despot in society, often eccentric and imperious after
the style of the leading lady on the stage, averse to labor, contemptuous of
self-support, listless and tempestuous by turns, a tyrant among her slaves, and a fury in
sectional politics, the most influential factor in the impending war. And still, although
the past twenty-five years has virtually thrown open the southern states, and the entire
region from Washington to Texas swarms with winter tourists, the old notion dies hard. I
am asked a dozen times a week, by excellent people, in all parts of the North, if I do not
find the southern women filled with bitterness over the results of the war, and if the
southern girl of the period is not that contradictory nondescript, at once a list- less,
shiftless, superficial butterfly of society, and an artful conspirator against the peace
of the nation. True, I have noticed that whenever two young women of similar capacity,
culture, and social status are brought together, from Massachusetts and South Carolina, a
new mutual admiration society is imminent. The most enthusiastic crowd that an elderly
gentleman can pilot through the glories of Back Bay, Bunker Hill, Faneuil Hall, Concord,
and the Harvard campus is the flock of bright southern girls which every season brings on
its flight to our northern summer schools. Still, the average New England or western
community obstinately holds on to the picture of the southern woman painted on the
drop-curtain, and half suspects a northern man of being the victim of a sentimental craze,
who ventures to tell the story of the new woman's movement at the South as it looks to
unprejudiced though friendly eyes. I do not pretend to know all about these matters of
which I write, and many a southern woman might honestly believe me wrong in my
diagnosis of southern social affairs; but I do know more than the majority of my northern
friends.
It should be said, in the first place, that the popular northern idea of the southern
woman of the leading class, before the war, was largely evolved from the realm of romance.
That the superior woman of the South was characterized in those days by the early
development of personal charms, a winning social grace and friendliness, and an ambition
for social superiority in that concentrated her education on social culture, was doubtless
true. But the notion that the leading class in the South was distinguished by superior
descent or eminent culture from a similar class in the old northern states was untrue. The
best old families of both sections came from similar original British stock, -
the great intelligent, progressive middle class that has created the new republic and
reconstructed the Great Britain of two centuries ago.
The opportunities afforded by foreign travel and education of the ordinary American
type for girls half a century ago, for the growth of fine womanly qualities among these
classes, was very evenly distributed through the states east of the Alleghenies. While the
southern schools for girls were sufficiently numerous and well-appointed to meet the
ordinary demand for the education of the young woman of the better class the only
woman who was schooled at all and many of the more favored girls were sent North or
to Europe for better training; yet, on the whole, the female seminaries of the
old North, imperfect as they may have been, were the better of the two, and the average of
booklearning and the scholarly habit more marked among the young women north than south of
Washington.
Yet the southern woman of thirty years ago was just what the woman of New England,
Pennsylvania, or New York would have been, had her grandfather removed to Georgia or
Texas, and had she been reared amid the influences of the southern country life of that
remote
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era. The North saw our southern sister at the most and least attractive
angles of her life, as the brilliant idol of society, and as the listless victim of
an indolence largely the result of enervating climate, unwholesome habits of living, and
the demoralizing environment of a servile class. But the southern woman the North did not
see was of the same essential type it loves and honors at home. On a thousand lonely
plantations, often in unwholesome and discouraging surroundings, born into a state of
society from which no woman could escape, the majority of the planters wives and
daughters bore themselves, in those old days, with the same womanly devotion,
intelligence, quiet energy, and daily self-sacrifice that everywhere characterized the
superior American woman of the past generations.
Indeed, while all the advantages of slavery were monopolized by the negro savage, who
was changed by two centuries of servitude into the American citizen of African
descent we beheld in 1865, an(l while the aristocratic man of the South did seem to
reap undeniable results in the enjoyment of personal, social, and political power, the
heavy end of that lot was always lifted by the woman. The Christian wife and mother could
not but look with silent dismay down into the black, bottomless gulf of temptation that
yawned below the cradle of every boy. Her husbands slaves were a mob of
half-civilized children, always under her feet, and her life at home, with many redeeming
attractions, was a daily service of toil, anxiety and often, half-hopeless effort to hold
things together and do her full duty as mistress of the mansion. The prevailing idea of
womanhood forbade her to step out upon a multitude of paths open to her sister of the
North. To teach, to engage in any industrial calling of self-support, except on the
compulsion of dire necessity or from the impulse of genius, was not for her. No rage for
religious speculation tumbled the placid waters of her country church, and the Protestant
clergy had practically as thorough control of her education as the Catholic priesthood
assumes for the young women of their flocks to-day.
That such a life, with its peculiar romance and excitement, was a powerful stimulus to
deep thought and brooding sentiment, giving to the character of the southern woman that
undertone of pathos and intensity that still hangs about her like the sad and almost
tragic refrain of her whole life, we can easily understand. That it developed a type of
woman most powerful in her hold upon the men of her own section, and, as she comes to be
better known, destined to be more largely influential than ever before in the national
life, we cannot doubt. The finest fruits of aristocratic society are always garnered by
the best women. The South, before the war, was rich in excellent women who, like their sex
everywhere, committed body and soul to their own order of social affairs, were the most
precious of the manifold treasures of that mysterious land.
Said a northern soldiers wife
I lived a while, during the war, in a camp of Confederate prisoners, as the wife
of the commander of the post, whose duty it was to open the letters that came to these men
from their families and friends. As I looked at the photographs of women that came in
these letters, I couldn't wonder that these men were ready to fight to the death under the
powerful spell of those eloquent faces and flashing eyes.
We are hearing great things nowadays, and I have seen in my numerous visitations,
something of the vast mineral treasures of the South, almost undiscovered before the year
186o, now promising to surpass the richest deposits in any land. But the one mine from
which the South will gather pearls beyond price, in the upward lift to its enlarging
destiny through the years to come, is the marvellous treasure-house of its young
womanhood, in the days of the mothers hidden from the nation by the drop curtain of
slave society, now opening, in the deeper realms of life, moving to its rightful influence
and its own peculiar place in the American sisterhood to whom we look for the redemption
of the land.
The great broom of war swept the eleven seceding states of the South almost clean of
effective white manhood through four awful years. For the first time in the history of
these states, the white
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women of every class were left in virtual possession of the
home life. The South, in 186o, was a vast, sparsely populated country, with but one great
city south of Washington, the superior people dispersed through the quiet plantation life
of the old regime. There, far from the alarm of invasion, the vast majority of these
women, through four terrible years, carried in their arms the entire home life of these
states; not only bearing the burdens so nobly assumed by their northern sisters, the
management of children and the work for the soldier in camp, field, and hospital, but, in
large measure, occupied by the management of more than four million slaves, in a state of
wild suppressed expectancy such as only they could comprehend. How wonderfully well they
went through that awful period; how, day by day, their faculty of administration grew
apace; how they thought and pondered and wept and prayed and suffered on, thousands of the
best of them in the grip of relentless poverty,- all this was veiled from us. What we did
hear was the very obvious fact that the woman, South, even, beyond her sister in the
North, was a flame of fire in the cause she had been educated from her cradle to believe
was the cause of God, and that its overthrow would involve the destruction of all good
things given to her in this world.
And the strange thing, even yet not fully comprehended by many of our sisters of the
South, is that no schooling less stringent than the frightful ordeal of a destructive
civil war, which virtually exhausted the life of an entire generation of women, could have
brought the woman of the South up to the threshold of the magnificent opportunity on which
her foot is planted to-day. Neither we nor she could have seen how, beyond the smoke and
dust of war, the glory of the Lord was on its way for her deliverance, and that the
downfall of the cause for which she so bravely gave her life was to be the signal for an
uplift of which she had never dreamed.
For the one thing needed by the southern white woman, of every class, a generation ago,
was emancipation from the spell cast over her executive energies by the very constitution
of society into which she was born. With an excess of chivalric devotion to women, that to
our cooler northern temperament appears almost romantic, the southern man, in the old
time, never fully understood that the most genuine worship of woman is shown by the large
appreciation of her nature and her place in the modern world and the ready offer of the
helping hand in every honest and womanly effort to do her best for her country and
mankind. Chivalry, always the same in essentials, flowers out in varied expression from
age to age. The knight of five centuries ago, in Europe, was a stalwart brother, clad in
cumbrous brass or sheathed in shining steel, ready to break his own heart or crack his
rivals head in behalf of a blooming damsel who could probably neither read nor
write, but whom he adored as queen of love and beauty. The American knight of
to-day is a fine young fellow in citizens dress, who gives his hand, with his heart
and his pocket-book in it, to his little sister, his pretty cousin, or his youngish maiden
aunt, saying, Go, dear, to the university and study to your hearts content, -
and when you come home with your diploma in your reticule, we'll crown you queen of love
and beauty and princess of light. It is beginning to be understood among the noblest
women of the South that in no way save by the complete wreck of the old order could the
young woman of to-day be found, like the wise virgin, with lamp trimmed and burning,
awaiting the bridegroom, the womans calling and election in the
grand and awful time which our eyes behold.
The slaveholders of the South, in r 86o, did not number the present population of
Boston, and the entire body of people personally interested in the institution could
hardly have amounted to three of the eight millions of the white people of the South. That
class, in 86o, was the most powerful aristocracy in Christendom. It ruled the American
republic, plunged the nation into a civil war, and almost swung the two foremost powers of
Europe over to itself. In 1865, that body of people was more com-
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pletely
overwhelmed than any similar class in modern times. Not only was its political domination
in national affairs forever gone, but it was reduced to almost absolute poverty, without
the severe industrial executive training that makes poverty the lightest of all burdens
for the young man and woman of the North. Not one in ten of these old respectable families
has emerged from this financial wreck, or will ever stand again on its feet in the old
way. Of course, the woman bore the cross in this complete prostration of loftiest hopes.
In 1865, many thousands of the women of the leading class of the South were left with a
less hopeful outlook for the life of comfort and household ease so dear to every woman
than multitudes of the servant girls that swarm the pavements of our northern towns on the
evening of a summer day.
But to another class of southern women this experience came in another way. Far more
numerous than the throng of suffering women of the better sort was the great crowd of the
wives and daughters of the non-slave-holding white man. Under this class, minus the fringe
of poor white trash, the tramps of the South in all but their lazy
determination not to tramp, must be included a variety of people, from the reckless
woodsman in the pine forests of the Atlantic and Gulf Coast, through the vigorous farmers
of the Piedmont realm, over among the two million dwellers in the interminable mountain
region, as large as Central Europe, that extends from Harpers Ferry almost to within
sight of the lovely capital of Alabama.
Of the white women of these various classes we at the North knew nothing and
know very little to-day. That many of them were ignorant, often vulgar and weak in their
womanhood, living in strange discomfort, we have been told, with variations, by the
omniscient metropolitan reporter, by the omnipresent drummer and, later, by the novelists
of the South, who have penetrated to their homes. But the other side of the story has not
been told. These people are almost wholly of the original British stock that peopled the
New England and the Middle States, radically kind and confiding, their vices and follies
rather the faults of neglected children than of the depraved class that is the terror of
our great American towns. Hence we need not be surprised to learn that to this class the
war brought a great era of emancipation and found in it a people ready to step out into
the light before the country.
The first result of peace was to bring multitudes of the men of this class forward as
buyers and owners of better lands than they could obtain under the old order of affairs.
All over the South, especially on the beautiful slopes and in the vast mountain regions,
we see the rising homes of these new folk. We meet their boys in all the growing villages.
They swarm in Texas. The city of Atlanta, has almost been created by them, with Senator
Joe Brown as their best man. In the schools for girls, these shy, awkward,
shut-up maidens are carrying off the prizes and going forth as teachers. They are the
factory girls in the new cotton mills, and are ready to work, as they are
taught, in the various ways by which thousands of American women are earning honest money.
If I were twenty years younger, I would go in, as a missionary of the education of the
head, the heart, and the hand, at Harpers Ferry, and only come out for supplies,
till not only was my hair gray, but my head bald, and I ready to embark on the long
journey to the Beyond. One of the noblest of the good women teachers of North Carolina,
who established a school for girls in the chief town in that wonderful upland world of the
old North State, writes
The prospects for my boarding-school for the more favored young ladies of the
vicinity are excellent. But oh, for money, money, money, to educate the poor, dear
ignorant girls of this glorious mountain land!
What can be done with the children, even of the lowest class of this sort, the
trash of the coast country, may be known by sitting on the platform of Amy
Bradleys Tileston school, in Wilmington, North Carolina, and looking into the faces
of four hundred of them, as fair to look upon as our own little New Eng-
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land
boys and girls. Our North is rich in the honors of philanthropy; but no work done for the
uplift of the children will shine with a brighter record than the twenty-five years
service of Amy Bradley, a Boston schoolmistress, in the draining of the Wilmington
Dry Pond, through the steady financial backing of Mrs. Mary Hemenway, who, not
content with her gift of $125,000 for the education of the poor of that locality, and her
munificence to the colored folk at Hampton Institute, has now built on even broader
foundations, in her school of elementary learning and industrial arts in a suburb of
Norfolk.
And what of the negro women the three millions of them between the Potomac and
the Rio Grande? What has emancipation and a generation of freedom done for them? For the
vicious, weak, and foolish, what liberty always does at first for an enslaved race -
barring the ferocity that always flares out from a similar emancipated class in the lower
regions of European life. Let us not forget that our Freedman is the latest comer who
knocks at the door of the worlds new civilization. The colored ancestry of the most
civilized of these people dates back less than three hundred years; while probably a third
of them would find their grandfathers of a century ago in the jungles of the Dark
Continent. Among these women are as many grades of native intellectual, moral, and
executive force, to say nothing of acquirements, as among the white people. The
plantations of the Gulf:, the Atlantic Coast, and the Mississippi bottoms swarm with negro
women who seem hardly lifted above the brutes. And I know a group of young colored women,
many of them accomplished teachers, in Washington, D. C., who bear themselves as gently
and with as varied womanly charms as any score of ladies in the land.
The one abyss of perdition to this class is the slough of unchastity in which, as a
race, they still flounder, half-conscious that it is a slough, the double
inheritance of savage Africa and that one hateful thing in slavery for which even good old
Nehemiah Adams could find no excuse. But here things are mending, a good deal faster than
the average southern man will allow, though all too slow to justify the fond enthusiasm of
those elsewhere who only know the negro as the romantic figure in the great war, and the
petted child of the Christian church in the North and foreign lands. I have looked upon
many thousands of these girls, in the schools established by the splendid philanthropy of
the North and in the local public schools of the southern country; and I am sure that in
the midst of this wild, weltering sea of unstable womanhood is slowly forming a continent
of pure, honest, Christian young women, who have before them a nobler mission field than
the women of any civilized land, in the redemption and training to personal morality of
their sisters of the South.
For here is the fulcrum over which any lever that would lift the younger colored people
must pry. No readjuster politician, preaching a gospel of repudiation; no clamor for the
right to eat and sleep and ride and study in the same place as the white man; no craze for
the higher education, or any device of mental or industrial culture that leaves out of
account the foundations of a solid and righteous life; no ecstasy of sentimental or
passional religion that floats away soul and sense in a deluge of muddy emotion; nothing
but the severe training of more than one generation of these colored girls in the central
virtue of womanhood can assure the success of this entire region of American citizen-
ship. Until the colored woman has her feet securely planted on that rock, all that any or
everybody can do for her race is like treasure flung into an abyss. As she gains on that
path, all good things will come to her and hers. The radical disability of the negro
to-day is the fatal disability of a feeble morality. In all else, though not an imitation
white man, notably no revised edition of the Anglo- Saxon white man, he has a wealth of
nature and a speciality of gifts that will bring him out one of the most useful and, by
all odds, the most picturesque of the characters in our manifold American life.
And now, how are these women of the
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South, the various grades and classes of
them, bearing themselves at the opening of the great day of womans destiny through
these states of the Southland? For we need not fancy that the southern woman, of any
class, is going back to the place where we saw her a generation ago. The old places have
passed away. She cannot be the same Lady Bountiful on the plantation; she cannot queen it,
as of old, in Washington, or be the same kind of southern portent abroad, the same
low-down white woman of the mountains, the same slave mother, even the same
reckless companion of the white mans folly, as in the days gone by. There are plenty
of women in all these states who do not know this; who will still pine for what is forever
gone, or wreck themselves in frantic struggles after what can never be to them what it was
to their mothers, even if obtained. But in any thoughtful estimate of womankind we must
leave out the conventional sisterhood, foolish or respectable, that never looks beyond the
hour and drifts, like one of the great flowery grass-islands of the shallow bayou. When we
write of the southern womans movement, we mean the movement of all women in the
South who having eyes, see, and having ears, hear, and having souls welcome
the call of God and go forth, ofttimes under a cloud of local prejudice, but more and more
coming to be known as the leaders of the higher society in every state. How are these
young women meeting the call? What is of far more importance to some of us, what can the
women of the North do to help them in these toilsome early years?
The South of to-day is still an all-outdoors country, as large as Europe outside of
Russia, its eastern slope and southwestern empire in some ways contrasting like our own
East and West; yet its oldest states, like Virginia and the Carolinas, in many important
respects a border-land, to be waked up and thoroughly populated, in the same manner as our
new Northwest. In all these states, leaving out half-a-dozen border cities, there is but
one town of metropolitan dimensions and character, New Orleans; a dozen others,
some of historic importance, others of recent growth, of fifty thousand and upwards, and a
larger number of between five thousand and twenty thousand; in all, not so many people
gathered in proper city life, in the thirteen states below the border, as in New England.
The vast majority of the superior families of the South still abide in a quiet country or
village life which, in all save cheapness of living, is below that of the corresponding
region in an) northern state in the opportunities for personal culture and
diversified industry, so valued by our American young women of ability and spirit.
Through these vast areas, in all these states, common schools have been established,
chiefly since 1870, better than ever were thought of before, but in most places outside
the larger towns, lamentably ineffectual to meet the needs of the people. School districts
five miles square, such muddy miles in winter, such blazing miles in summer; log or
indifferent frame schoolhouses, with all sorts of substitutes ; teachers, paid twenty
dollars, thirty dollars, possibly forty dollars a month, and find themselves
for a term of three to four months in the year in the Gulf region, from four to five
elsewhere; the absolute separation of the races in all schools controlled by the southern
people ; these drawbacks to education in the country bear heavily on the white
girl.
The agricultural life of all these states is improving; but a plantation in central
Georgia or a stock-farm in southeastern Texas is about the slowest coach in which an
ambitious American woman can be booked for her life journey. The bright young
men are flying from this life in crowds. They cannot be expected to stand by the old
folks at home and fight out the battle of their changing system of labor, when every
growing county town, little city, and, especially, the rising empire beyond the
Mississippi are beckoning them to the rewards of active enterprise. One of the chief
hindrances to the rapid change of southern country life is this drifting away of the young
men, who would naturally become the leaders in all progressive things, leaving on the
ground so many of
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the unenterprising, vicious, idle youth, who have only vigor
enough to stand up to the home crib and eat their fill. So, more and more, with notable
exceptions in every state, the country, which was the stronghold of the old southern
society, is left to the negroes, the poorer white men who come in and buy or rent the
farms, and the women of the old families, who must stay where there is a house to cover
and a granary to feed the home flock. Into such a life as this, bereaved of so many
influences, outside the home enjoyed by the young women of other portions of the country,
myriads of southern girls are born; and there they must stay, unless they develop an
energy of which the most enterprising girl is not always capable, to push out, get a fair
education from a neighboring academy, contriving meanwhile to get money enough to meet
reasonable demands for dress, and the little outings that vary the monotony of the home.
There are few of the avenues for industrial success open which invite the northern woman
who would care for herself. Such occupations imply a concentrated population, with money
to spend and a growing taste for expensive living. To a limited extent a portion of these
girls are occupied in the old style fancy work, which is sold in the cities.
Some of them go to the towns and find occupation in the ordinary wants of a village of a
thousand to five thousand people, where every avenue of domestic labor and the rougher
outdoor labor is occupied by colored women, the abler of whom are making their way into
occupations that are monopolized by respectable white women through the North.
At present, the one broad avenue out of this quiet country life is school-teaching.
Here the young women of the better class are rapidly coming into almost complete
possession. The young men fit for this work are largely seeking other and more lucrative
employments. The average boy of twelve, even in the cities, leaves school, at least to
begin to play little man, and keep the wolf from the door. The daughters of
the humbler white families, with increasing exceptions, are unfit for this work, save in
remote localities and ignorant districts. So these young women of the old plantation
families, a generation of whom have come up since 1860, are now, under the supervision,
often merely nominal, of a limited number of superintendents, teaching the new
public schools of the South. In places where the colored youth are not up to the work,
they are in the negro schools, in Baltimore and Charleston largely in the ascendant.
It would awaken the most indifferent to a lively sympathy, to see how thousands of
these young women are toiling for the moderate education that will fit them for this work,
as well as to obtain the ordinary culture of a woman in good society. The most
enterprising girl of a numerous household will, in some way, get together the one or two
hundred dollars for which a years schooling can be had in one of the academies that
dot the country at intervals all over the South, and were the only schools of the mothers.
Many of them were overthrown, but have been largely re-established, mostly without
endowments, often with good teachers, working on meagre wages, the authorities turning
every way to handle the crowd of eager applicants who often, not able to face the moderate
expense, are willing to pledge their future for any assistance. In one of these schools
this good girl, probably overworked, often does a remarkable amount of solid study in a
short time, leaving when the funds give out. Their wisest teachers speak of the
constitutional sensitiveness of great numbers of these young women, the inheritance of a
generation born in a revolutionary period, as a serious drawback to the intense and
prolonged effort they attempt to make. This girl goes home to take the neighborhood
school, or finds a better place elsewhere, and uses her little earnings to pay her debt or
pull up her sisters below, the whole family being harnessed to her, till the load is
drawn, the harness breaks, or the brave daughter marries and is relieved by the next in
turn.
Under this pressure, in country and city, very early marriages, into which the element
of support largely enters, are inevitable. However social philosophers may deplore what
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the American decline of marriage, and however hateful may
be the social rot of easy divorce, we are inclined to think that the evil resulting from
these very early marriages of immature, half-educated girls with the fearful
break-down of health and happiness, including its reflex action on the masculine South
is a yet more serious social portent than frequent divorce, which all thoughtful
Christian people deplore. Be that as it may, when the Southern people are for the first
time getting upon the ground a system of education for the masses, it is little short of a
providential interposition that so large a proportion of the choice young women of sixteen
states are thus brought into the profession of instruction. To realize this fact we must
imagine the entire wealthy and cultivated class in a northern state suddenly reduced to
almost absolute poverty and the foremost young women of these families driven for a
livelihood to teach in country district, village, and city schools, with the ladies of
rich, well-known families, employed in the seminaries of secondary instruction. It brings
the finest culture and the consecrated young womanhood of the South into direct contact
with the masses of children, a beautiful object lesson in the divine
way of lifting up the lowly and binding all sorts and conditions together by
an enduring social bond.
Fifteen years ago, these schools were largely taught by elderly men and women who had
lost their all, and were qualified only as the ordinary woman or man of a superior class
may be for this difficult work. But now the younger women are coming in; and by their
prodigious efforts to attain academical education, their attendance in multitudes on the
summer institutes now held in all the states, in exceptional cases by visitation to the
North at vacation schools, they are rapidly preparing themselves for this good work. A
more attractive, inquisitive, plucky crowd of young women is not to be found
in this or any country. They are doing more valuable work for the children, under greater
hindrances, for smaller pay, than any class of women anywhere.
Outside of this, there is coming up in all the prosperous southern cities a moderate
interest in opening new industrial avenues for white women. In every one of them there is
the nucleus of an association, and in most of them an active society of ladies for the
encouragement of home work, which will possibly grow into a school for artisans. Few of
these movements have reached an influential stage of development, and the girls wishing to
fit themselves as teachers in such ways must still rely to a large extent upon instruction
from without.
Just below this class is corning up, in some portions of the South, a crowd of the
daughters of the poorer white people of the hill and coast country, to cooperate in this
educational work. Some of the girls seminaries that I have visited are largely
filled with this class of students. With all sorts of drawbacks, often with lack of health
and home culture in manners, and with no previous habits of application, they yet show no
fatal lack of ability. Indeed, many of the finest pupils in all these schools are from
such homes. One young woman, to whom it was my office to present a prize for superior
scholarship in English literature, at the end of two years schooling had written a
critical essay on one of Shakesperes plays which brought another testimonial, from
the Shakespere Society of London. Yet this fine student was preparing to go back to her
mountain home, to teach on the poor wages of the village school, to repay her brother the
loan for her own education, his only opportunity for a two years outing. My life for a
dozen years past has been lived among such experiences as this, and I have come to
realize, almost with a flaring up of fiery indignation, the supreme folly and intolerable
selfishness of the awful luxury and wasteful expensiveness that confronts me on coming
homeward to the great centres of social recreation, after three-fourths of every year
passed amid such longing for the bread and water of life. The women of our country have it
in their power to educate every good girl thus struggling for the knowledge which must be
the outfit for self-supporting woman-
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hood, by giving the margin that, beyond all
reasonable claim for comfortable and even elegant living, now goes over into the social
abyss.
The great want of the better sort of colored young woman for the elementary schooling
and industrial training which will make her an effective teacher, a worker in the church,
a leader in the society of her people, and a Christian wife and mother, is being supplied
by a group of admirable schools, largely supported by northern funds, though partly by
tuition fees paid in money or in labor. Money judiciously given for student aid to these
schools goes to a good place. A great work could be done in southern cities by
establishing an annex to the public schools for the training of large numbers of colored
girls in home industries, skilled housekeeping and the many ways of getting a living now
opening to them. In every community there are bright graduates from the schools, from
worthy families, who, leaving their studies at twelve or fourteen, have nothing to do but
hover about a crowded country home, swarm the town pavements, and fall away under such
temptations as beset all who live in this style. If these girls could be offered a
thorough training of a year in a good school of housekeeping, or the many trades and
industries by which a young woman can live, the present fearful condition of southern
household service would be reformed, these children saved from abject poverty,
shiftlessness, and impurity, and a great many would all the time be marching out of the
slough of despond toward the uplands of a wholesome social life. A plant of a few thousand
dollars in any southern city would purchase and furnish a suitable house among these
people, where a good white or colored woman could live, making it a model home, receive
her classes, train her pupils in practical homemaking and, as opportunity offered,
introduce new departments, till it became a centre of the better life to the whole
aspiring class in the town. If a northern woman with tact and common sense, she could
interest the best of the Christian workers of the town in her enterprise, and there might
be awakened a new understanding and sympathy between the good working women of both
sections. Thanks to a few noble women and the wise administration of the public school
system of Washington, D. C., this feature of the education of these people is now being
rapidly developed there though still far from sufficient to meet the dire
necessity. We must do a prodigious amount of such work during the next twenty years, or by
and by we shall have a black slough at the bottom of American society whose malaria will
taint every palace and make republican government a chronic conflict. It would be best
that some of these industrial homes should not be under the control of churches or
connected with private or public schools, but be independent centres of good living,
attracting by their own merits. These homes should at once be established, on a large
scale, in every considerable southern city. Each of these towns is now educating a large
number of bright young colored girls, who are all the time exposed to the demoralizing
influence of the multitude of idle and vicious negroes, the pest of southern society. The
time is at hand when only a thorough system of vagrant laws, with truant schools, possibly
compulsory industrial schooling, will save the cities and villages of all these states
from the unendurable nuisance of becoming a paradise for all the drift of every color and
condition in the South.
Anybody can run out these lines of thought, and conjecture the result of this
sympathetic movement of the Christian women of the country toward the thousands of young
white women in the South, who need all that can be offered all the more because
they are not asking for themselves. And it does not require the imagination of a Zola to
portray the result of letting the daughters of these millions of emancipated slaves come
UI) ignorant, vulgar, lazy, the great American sewer under the back windows of every
respectable home.
All that any wise and loving woman hopes for her sex in the new republic is hoped and
prayed for by thousands of young women in the South. For good or evil, the woman of the
South has
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made an irretrievable forward movement in the past thirty years. She must
be the most influential factor in the upper realm of the new southern life. The home, the
school, the church, the lighter industries, literature, art, and society will be her
preserve. What she makes the next South, our children will find it, a generation hence.
Shall they find it another hostile land, threatening new revolutions, or shall it be to
them a land of welcome and of patriotic union with all that is best. and most precious at
home?
But why, somebody may ask, talk to us of these things? Cannot the women of Texas and
Louisiana and Alabama take care of themselves, bring up their own families, educate their
sons and daughters, live in their own way without our help? Have we not enough to do here
in New England, New York, in the West, and beyond the mountains, to keep the northern end
of the Union from going to the bad, that we must be burdened with this record of the
trials, temptations, and needs of our sisters in the South? I have, more than once met
just this word, as I have urged these claims of the South upon us. It has the twang of the
query of the oldest bad boy of Mother Eve: Am I my brothers keeper?
After that, we seem to hear, chanting down through the centuries, the other song:
Whosoever giveth a cup of cold water to one of these little ones, in my name, shall
in nowise lose his reward.
But we write to the young women of our country, born in this glorious morning hour of
the new republic, who must press onward if that republic is to be saved for the noblest
civilization possible to this new age. To these young women of the North, we say: These
young women of the South, your sisters and mine, are now doing so much to help themselves,
are working and reaching upward so bravely after the best, that it should bring a blush of
shame to the brow of any woman or man to speak those careless or cruel words that so
easily fall from thoughtless or heated lips. Leave to the machine politician, to the
narrow sectarian churchman, to whoever has neither interest nor ambition above the
miserable petting of self, the poor amusement of bluffing sweet charity and heavenly
justice with arguments like these. Leave to the soulless satellite of fashion, to the
stolid herd mired in gross comfort and smothered in stupid content in handsome
environment, the conviction that the chief end of the woman of the upper class in America
is to build a little social paradise, fence it in with a high hedge, and put a snapping
terrier at the gate leave it to such to go their way with this poor apology for not
hearing a divine call. But let the young sisterhood that lives for what is the highest and
wisest and holiest, make haste over the borderland, bearing gifts of love and hope and
good cheer to the thousands who are only awaiting their coming to run forward with welcome
in their outspread hands, and thanksgiving in their overflowing hearts that, after a forty
years wandering of the fathers and mothers through a wilderness of blind contention
closed by desolating war, we, their sons and daughters, find ourselves, at last, on the
other side of Jordan, to abide together in the promised land. Believe nobody who declares
that the young women of the South are haters of their country; enemies of the North, proud
and disdainful of the sympathy of good American people anywhere. There is nothing between
the young women of the North and South save their ignorance of each other, and the
difficulty of getting hold of each others hands. If a thousand of the better sort of
girls from Virginia, Mississippi, and Texas could live for three summer months with a
thousand of a similar class from Massachusetts, Ohio, and California, there would be a
thousand new friendships and a rush of letters, North and South, which would wake up the
drowsiest postmaster at the cross-roads, and bring two thousand fine fellows to the
anxious seat, with inquiring minds concerning their sisters new dearest
friends. There is no duty or privilege more imperative or inviting for the well-to-do
young women of our northern states, than to put themselves in communication with their
sisters in the South, by all the beautiful, beneficent devices so easy to any young woman
really bent on having her own splendid will in her own womanly way.
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